Meet The Bright Faces of REACH

Greetings world! 

This year, we have been working with about 14 students in San Francisco with 5 consistant female mentors. We have turned REACH into a mentoring weekend program and we do activities and programs every other weekend. We hosted a spring fitness 10 week program, and a summer art program successfully so far. All in addition to going to the movies, working on college essays, and more!  

As you begin to go shopping this year, we ask that you consider “adopting” or “co-adopting” one of our students to make their holiday so eventful! They have personally requested these items, but our program is not in a position financially to assist in this department. 


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Keary is a talented, straight A musician who is asking for a laptop computer so she can do homework on her 2-hour (each way) commute to high school and for college! She just submitted 17 applications for college, including Harvard. Jasmine was raised by a single mom in Single Room Occupancy (SRO) housing. Single Room Occupancy is basically one standard sized room, closet, and bathroom. The other residents were drug dealers, prostitutes, alcoholics and they were loud and disruptive at all hours of the night. After years of complaints, she was removed from her mom’s care and placed in emergency foster care.

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Nicole has been in foster care for more than seven years, separated from her siblings the entire time. Nichole isn’t even sure if her brothers and sisters know about her, and she wants to use her senior photography thesis to bring her family together. This year, she is asking for a professional camera. 

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Daniel: “As a ten year old in my first group home, I remember daydreaming about being powerful enough to do something for the kids I had grown to know so well. That Christmas, everyone had a visit from someone, but me. Today I am a mentor to foster youth in my area, and have earned a position on the Foster Care Alumni of America Committee. The next time I am in family court, it won’t be as a powerless youngster, but as a legal advocate to the next generation of underprivileged youth. With that dream in reach, I am not without impediments to my educational trajectory. After two years as an honors student and a 3.9 GPA, I have been accepted to a University far from my home. Without a car, it will be very difficult to commute to this campus. My goal is to have a car of my own, which will assist me in launching my career as a practicing civil rights attorney, and blazing a trail for the future foster youth, who deserve to know that their dreams can become goals, and with a bit of help, those goals will become reality.”
 

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Steph: “I was born with a paranoid schizophrenic mom. My mom wouldn’t take me to school and we moved every few months. She took me away from my dad, an alcoholic, by putting a knife against his throat and saying “If I can’t leave and take Steph with me, I will kill you.” She physically and emotionally abused me. I was then put into the foster care system. I tried my best to excel in school, but it is hard with the lack of education because of no foundation I had, until the eighth grade. My hope and inspiration is that through education I can have the power to accomplish my dreams, and in bettering myself and loved ones. I have maintained a 3.2 GPA. Throughout high school I have done clubs such as Glee Club, Red Cross, Gay Straight Alliance and the Tutor Club. I have great artistic ability. After school I volunteer my time as a daycare assistant as a way to give back to the community. I aspire to go to a UC and major in graphic design, psychology, or international studies. Having a laptop computer is essential to furthering my education.

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Jennifer: “At age 2, I was placed into foster care with a loving family. While I never got a chance to be placed back with my biological family, I still feel blessed to be in a home that loves and supports me. I live with just my foster, now adoptive mother. unfortunately my foster/adoptive father passed away with cancer when I was 9. Right now, I am in high school, and earning good grades has never been easy. However, right now, I have a 3.59 GPA and aspire to go college. Right now, I want to go to UCSD, UCLA, or UCSF. This is my dream. I want to succeed and beat the odds that I know are against me. I am the only child left in my family that still lives with my mom, and I really want to make her proud. Unfortunately, since my foster adoptive father passed, my mom is now on social security and is a widow with very little help. Money is tight at home, so I work a couple of hours a week to buy my necessities for school and for home.  I went to the dentist this month, and the dentist informed me and my mother that I need to have all four wisdom teeth (that are impacted in my mouth), removed. While this sounds painful to have this surgery done, it is more painful keeping them in right now. It is imperative that I seek professional help from a dentist to have these removed. Unfortunately our insurance from the government will not cover this procedure. This procedure in total is $1,850, and this Christmas, I would like to save enough from working after school to get this procedure done with your help.”

Foster Parent’s Perspective on Fostering a Life

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Foster Parent’s Perspective on Fostering a Life by Kim Snodgrass, REACH Founder

On October 20th, I flew out from San Francisco, California to speak to the Pennsylvania State Resource Family Association about what it means to break down the word foster and how we as caretakers can bridge the education gap for all children. Below is what our audience collectively shared.

Things that worked well for parents as a child/teenageer growing up:

  • Support network and family
  • Never giving up
  • Being consistent
  • Love unconditionally (Agape)
  • Having compassion
  • Prayer
  • Going all in on a challenge
  • Building self confidence by affirmation from others
  • Having adults come to events, concerts, or graduation ceremonies showing support
  • Sense of humor, laughter
  • Conversation
  • Being pushed in the right direction even though at the time it did not feel like it
  • Setting goals with an adult
  • Create a timeline with a “things to do” list
  • Raised to believe “I can do this”



Things that parents can do that work well for children/teenagers in foster homes:

  • Praise
  • Emotional, social, and physical support
  • Giving youth a voice
  • Validate feelings (but not comparing the adult’s feelings)
  • Believing in them by example, not just by words.
  • Expression that you care. Show them.
  • Coach them to have a vision and see their goals (Helps to write them down and check in every week or two weeks to see where they are on their goals)
  • Communication
  • Consistency
  • Structure
  • Stability
  • Discipline
  • Learning to trust
  • Being non judgemental
  • Confidentiality
  • Staying positive
  • Being assertive as parents
  • Promoting graduation and success
  • Promoting and leading by example by what it means to be a successful adult
  • Understand that every child learns differently, and it takes promoting and encouraging alternative learning approaches
  • Stability after care- a place to go after foster care, during the holidays, during college
  • Use concrete examples with children and never theory. Show them what the examples look like.
  • Advocate for children that do not have a voice.
  • Willingness to change
  • Giving routine and structure to all children
  • Knowing that it’s never too late
  • Showing them a sense of belonging and being there for them no matter what
  • College tours
  • Giving children a network, sharing contacts that may be able to help them to get a job or apply to college

REACH Art Retreat with Lorraine Lawson

This summer REACH gave teen girls in foster care the opportunity to express themselves and explore their creativity at Lorraine Lawson’s art studio in Campbell, Ca.

We are very thankful that Lorraine Lawson allowed us to use her studio and that she was kind enough to offer us guidance in creating our masterpieces. She went around the studio giving us advice on how to create the things we imagined in our minds for our paintings. She provided a bunch of materials for us to use like maps, music sheets, magazines, quotes from books, and so much more. With all those materials and tips from Lorraine, the power of the participant’s right noggins roamed free.

One of the things that was helpful in creating these pieces was the conversation and introduction we had at the beginning of the session. Lorraine asked us all to think of the three things that inspire us. Many of the girls said music, traveling, and the people that they love inspired them. All the participants awed us with their artist talent this summer. Check out our slide show below of all the art pieces we created this summer.

For more information about how to get involved with REACH or how to participate in our program visit www.reachforyou.org or visit the REACH Facebook.

Interested in taking a class at Lorraine Lawson’s Studio? Visit her website: http://onefineartist.com/

Summer Fun with the Girlies

Research shows that girls and young women need supportive relationships in order to thrive. REACH is designed to do just that! 

This month, July 2012, has been dedicated to bringing the young women who participated in our REACH Curves Fitness Program together and strengthen the bond we builded during those amazing eight weeks. 

One of the most random, but turned out to be really awesome, adventure we had as a group was last weekend’s outing to downtown Los Altos, CA. Where the heck is that you ask?  It is a small town in Silicon Valley. Our intention was to get together and do something fun like get dinner and a movie, but when we got to our destination, the entire downtown was closed off to set up a wine and art festival the following day! The streets were practically empty and everything was closed except for a few cafes.

Many people would have called it quits and gone home. But not us! We saw this as an opportunity for a ton of fun to happen. We took out our cameras and owned the streets!  We turned these empty streets into our stage, and had a mini photo shoot capturing a lovely summer evening. 

After exploring this empty downtown, we found a nail salon open. The coolest thing about it was that we had the salon to ourselves. It felt like we had a V.I.P. nail art party without expecting it! All the girls got to choose thier nail polish color and got manicures. We didn’t have that dinner and movie experience that we wanted due to things that were out of our control, but we ended up having a better time because of it. Getting manicures done gave us a better opportunity to catch up, bond, and learn more about the girls.

Part of mentoring a specific cohort like this one, is consistency and communication. At REACH we strive to nurture relationships that we build with our students and mentors through consistency and communication. After this outing, we found that the girls were more comfortable interacting with all of the group members. When we first meet some of the ladies, a few of them were very shy. When we meet again, those girls were more talkative and engaged. We are proud to see that there have been improvement in the girls self esteem and social interactions. Girl Power!

For more information about REACH or if you are interested in joining us visit our website www.reachforyou.org or Like us on REACH’s Facebook to join the fun! 

Scholarships and Higher Education: 
It is devastating to know that 46% of foster youth will not complete high school and only 1% earn college degrees. Despite the fact that foster children are in less fortunate situations, there are grants and scholarships awarded yearly to encourage and support educational success and advancement.
 To get started, view the following websites:1.http://www.collegescholarships.org/scholarships/foster 2. http://www.finaid.org/3. http://schoolscholarships.org/foster-children-scholarships-for-a-brighter-future 4.http://www.childwelfare.gov/adoption/postadoption/assistance/college.cfm 5.http://sparkaction.org/resources/http://www.orphan.org/index.php?id=30 6.http://www.childrensactionnetwork.org/scholarship.htm7. http://www.kimsnodgrass.com/Kim/College_Prep.htmlTips:-Begin looking into scholarships and colleges or universities to attend within your Sophomore and Junior year of high school. -Contact potential schools for information on programs offered and academic requirements. -Have a point of contact or a counselor from high school and the college/university guide you through the process of high education admittance into the institution of your choice. -Throughout your senior year of high school, make sure you are on target to graduate and you are completing the requirements necessary for admittance into the college or university of your choice.  -Seek a college mentor who will add to and encourage your academic success and completion

Scholarships and Higher Education:

It is devastating to know that 46% of foster youth will not complete high school and only 1% earn college degrees. Despite the fact that foster children are in less fortunate situations, there are grants and scholarships awarded yearly to encourage and support educational success and advancement.


To get started, view the following websites:
1.http://www.collegescholarships.org/scholarships/foster
2. http://www.finaid.org/
3. http://schoolscholarships.org/foster-children-scholarships-for-a-brighter-future
4.http://www.childwelfare.gov/adoption/postadoption/assistance/college.cfm
5.http://sparkaction.org/resources/http://www.orphan.org/index.php?id=30
6.http://www.childrensactionnetwork.org/scholarship.htm
7. http://www.kimsnodgrass.com/Kim/College_Prep.html

Tips:

-Begin looking into scholarships and colleges or universities to attend within your Sophomore and Junior year of high school. 
-Contact potential schools for information on programs offered and academic requirements.
-Have a point of contact or a counselor from high school and the college/university guide you through the process of high education admittance into the institution of your choice. 
-Throughout your senior year of high school, make sure you are on target to graduate and you are completing the requirements necessary for admittance into the college or university of your choice. 
-Seek a college mentor who will add to and encourage your academic success and completion

Sign Up For The REACH Fine Arts Retreat!

 

About the REACH Fine Art Retreat

Who is interested in exploring their creative side this summer 2012? You are in luck because REACH is providing that opportunity for you this summer! There will be TWO sessions starting in July each on a Sunday for three hours where you will have a chance to work side by side Lorraine Lawson, a famous fine artist, in her studio. How cool is that?

This is a unique opportunity to tell your life story, share your opinions, and express your self in a healthy way using art and multimedia. Here at REACH we are non judgmental and we encourage everyone to just keep an open mind and to be respectful. This program is meant to serve youth in foster care or former foster care youth in order to give them the same opportunities to succeed in the future. 

The two sessions are going on:

Sunday July 8th and Sunday July 22nd from 12-3pm. You must commit two both dates in order to participate in this program. The sessions will be held at 535 Salmar Ave Suite E, Campbell CA.

How to sign up:

With that said, sign up today! Its Free! All you have to do is email us your name and contact information and a sentence about why you are interested in joining. Our email is info@reachforyou.org and our phone number is 408-357-3224.

For more information about Lorraine Lawson visit http://onefineartist.com

Stay up to date with us about this program by following us on twitter @reachforyou #REACHart or on Facbook.

END OF THE YEAR CEREMONY

Last Saturday, May 19th, 2012, was the End of the Year Ceremony for the REACH GIRLS ONLY Fitness Program! We are so proud of our students who are making a change within themselves and in the community.

Despite waking up early on Saturday mornings to meet the girls at Curves in San Carlos, it was all worth it because of moments like this one captured in this video. There smiles and laughter is what warms my heart and I would do anything to see them succeed. I have meet some really amazing people through REACH. All of the girls that I have talked to at this program have so many great ideas, some on the creative side like underwater photography others on the more down to earth ideas like prepping for college, nonetheless, its inspiring.

There are a bunch of programs in the works to nurture our creative bone and workshops to help the girls meet their academic goals. Stay tune for news about theses programs!

For more information about REACH and what we do to serve youth in foster care please visit our website www.reachforyou.org

Hey World, May is National Foster Care Awareness Month, if you didnt know already! We have an EASY way for you to virtually make a difference!  Please take a moment to “Like” our new page. https://www.facebook.com/REACHforyou  Oh, yah, if you have a Twitter, follow us @reachforuhttp://twitter.com/#!/reachforu
 REACH is behind creating successful youth in the foster care system all over the U.S. Run by former foster youth too!  Thanks so much for your support!

Hey World,

May is National Foster Care Awareness Month, if you didnt know already! We have an EASY way for you to virtually make a difference!

Please take a moment to “Like” our new page. https://www.facebook.com/REACHforyou

Oh, yah, if you have a Twitter, follow us @reachforu
http://twitter.com/#!/
reachforu


REACH is behind creating successful youth in the foster care system all over the U.S. Run by former foster youth too!

Thanks so much for your support!

May is National Foster Care Month. Get the facts. - There are approximately 424,000 children in out of home placements in the United States foster care system. - Each year about 20,000 young people age out of foster care. Many are only 18 years old and still need support and services.  - 1,200 children enter foster care each day and remain there, on average, for more than two years. - 126,000 children are currently legally free for adoption. You can find out more about these children at www.adoptuskids.org How do you help nearly half a million kids? Start with One. Join REACH in making a difference in the lives of teens in foster care by participating in our fundraiser! As a nonprofit organizations we rely on donations year around to make it possible to run programs like the REACH Fitness program which promotes healthy living through fitness and nutrition. We are selling colorful sweatbands to raise money for the next REACH fitness program. 
Here is how to get a sweatband: visit our homepage www.reachforyou.org


May is National Foster Care Month. Get the facts.

- There are approximately 424,000 children in out of home placements in the United States foster care system.

- Each year about 20,000 young people age out of foster care. Many are only 18 years old and still need support and services.

- 1,200 children enter foster care each day and remain there, on average, for more than two years.

- 126,000 children are currently legally free for adoption. You can find out more about these children at www.adoptuskids.org

How do you help nearly half a million kids?


Start with One.

Join REACH in making a difference in the lives of teens in foster care by participating in our fundraiser! As a nonprofit organizations we rely on donations year around to make it possible to run programs like the REACH Fitness program which promotes healthy living through fitness and nutrition. We are selling colorful sweatbands to raise money for the next REACH fitness program. 

Here is how to get a sweatband: visit our homepage www.reachforyou.org

Reminders for the Next REACH Session 5/5/12




Hey Ladies! We are so proud of you for making it this far in our program! You guys rock! Here are some things we want to share with you about things to look forward to in the next couple of weeks:

1. REACH Promo Video Shoot
Happening this Saturday May 5th! Wear the work out gear REACH gave you. Also think about the following because we are going to ask for your opinion:

Why should other girls join our program?
And what your favorite moments at REACH have been?

Remember this is going to be FUN!

2. Measuring Time
We are getting our final measurements this Saturday May 5th so keep in mind some of the tips we learned at Curves:
Stay hydrated by drinking 8 glasses of 8 ounces of water
EAT small snacks EVERY THREE HOURS

3. REACH Dinner Ceremony 
Will be in two and half weeks from now on Sat May 19th so save the date!
We also will be going to see the Peninsula Symphony!
http://www.peninsulasymphony.org/all-concerts.php
We have an event flyer on our FB with more info!